Interpersonal Conflict Management

Speech Communication 220

 

Instructor: Dr. Richard L. Wiseman (Rich)                                             Fall 2001

 

Office: CP 420-2                                    Office Hours: 10-11 Tuesday & Thursday

Phones: 657-278-3902 (office)                                      1-2    Thursday

              657-278-3617 (dept.)

               657-278-3377 (fax)                 Email: rwiseman@exchange.fullerton.edu

 

        Class Contract

 

This is one-half of a contract.  It represents my explicit expectations of you, me, and the course.  I assume that you also have expectations of me that you may want to make explicit.  Please feel free to formalize these, either in writing or orally, now or as we move through the course.

 

Course Objectives

 

   1. To be able to define and identify nature and origins of interpersonal conflict.

 

   2. To be able to define and identify the bases of power in interpersonal conflict.

 

   3. To be able to develop collaborative/cooperative means of managing conflict.

 

   4. To be able to define and identify tactics and strategies involved in interpersonal conflict.

 

   5. To understand how our personal goals, relationships, and culture influence the nature and management of interpersonal conflict.

 

   6. To be able to more effectively intervene in the interpersonal conflicts involving others or yourself.

 

Philosophical Assumptions

 

As a "teacher" I make certain philosophical assumptions about the nature of education that you should be aware of.  Basically, those assumptions are:

 

   1. Education is a proactive rather than a reactive process, i.e., learning is facilitated when the student responsibly participates in the lear­ning process and that as an instructor I can only facilitate learning.  In other words, WE must assume responsibility for the learning that takes place.

 

   2. Learning can be generalized best when you integrate: (a) your "real life" experiences, (b) your experiences in the classroom, and (c) your conceptualizations based upon your readings, observations, etc.

 

   3. We have the potential and opportunity to learn from one another; it is expected that you will learn as much from each other as from the instructor (and I will learn from you!).

 

   4. Learning can only occur in the context of a supportive environment; I will try to be supportive of your learning and in return I hope you will be supportive of my and others' learning.

 

Course Requirements

 

To receive credit for the course, you must complete the following:

 

Three Examinations                           150

 

            Research Paper                                     50

 

            Case Analysis                                       30

 

            Class Attendance and Participation        60

                                                                        290

 

Examinations

 

There will be three examinations throughout the semester.  The examinations will cover the materials discussed in the lectures, texts, and in-class experiences for the time prior to the test (i.e., the tests will not be accumulative).  For each test, you will need an optical scan answer sheet (NCS P099B).

 

Research Paper

 

Each student is required to research some aspect of interpersonal conflict.  Topics may be a more intensive probe of a specific type of conflict communication (e.g., avoidance, competition, face saving, collaboration, mediation, etc.), a comparative study examining interpersonal conflict differences between groups of people (e.g., male/female, cultural groups, powerful/powerless,  etc.), or a theoretical paper which tries to synthesize varying theoretical perspectives on interpersonal conflict communication.  While library research should be the primary methodology, other research methodologies such as surveys, field observations, experiments, can be employed.  Students are encouraged to discuss their ideas with the instructor.  The papers should be between 8-10 pages (typed, double spaced, one inch margins) in length.  All papers are expected to be in an acceptable format, with standard English composition and spelling.  The composition of the research paper should conform to the American Psychological Association's Publication Manual (4th edition).  The research papers are due November 8.

 

Case Analysis

 

This exercise involves the exploration of an interpersonal conflict.  The interpersonal conflict may be one you have been in, you have been a third party to, or one portrayed in the media (e.g., film, TV, newspaper, court documents).  The instructor will distribute guidelines for diagnostic questions that should help in the case analysis.  You should use this conflict analysis to develop a careful and critical eye for issues and patterns in conflict interaction.  Through the analysis, you should also become more familiar with the individual properties of the conflict and in this way become more effective in managing conflicts.  The written paper for the case analysis should be between 6-8 pages in length (typed, double spaced, one inch margins).  The case analysis will be due December 4.

 

Attendance and Participation

 

The classroom will be our learning lab and an understanding of the concepts under examination will emerge within this setting.  Only if we work together can we learn together.  Since there are approximately thirty class sessions, you will earn two points for each session attended.

 

Readings

 

WH: William W. Wilmot & Joyce L. Hocker (2001).  Interpersonal conflict (6th edition).  New York: McGraw-Hill.

 

Packet of Readings.

 

Reading Schedule

 

            Week 1            WH: Ch. 1         Week 9            WH: Ch. 9

            Week 2            WH: Ch. 2         Week 10          TEST 2

            Week 3            WH: Ch. 3         Week 11          WH: Ch. 10

            Week 4            WH: Ch. 4         Week 12          Friendship Conflict

            Week 5            WH: Ch. 5; TEST 1   Week 13  Marital & Family

     Conflict

            Week 6            WH: Ch. 6          Week 14          Organizational Conflict

            Week 7            WH: Ch. 7          Week 15          Intercultural Conflict

            Week 8            WH: Ch. 8                   Finals Week     TEST 3

 

Course Outline

 

I.                    Perspectives on Conflict                     IX. Conflict Contexts

A.     Views on Conflict                              A. Friendship Conflict

B.     Nature of Conflict                              B. Marital & Family Conflict

C.     Elements of Conflict                           C. Organizational Conflict

D.     Cultural and Relational Assumptions   D. Intercultural Conflict

                                                                                               

II.                 Theories on Interpersonal Conflicts

A.     Psychodynamic Theory

B.     Field Theory

C.     Phase Theory

D.     Exchange Theory

 

III.               Conflict Goals

A.     Appropriateness of Behavior (Face Saving)

B.     Effectiveness of Behavior (Task Goals)

 

IV.              Power in Interpersonal Conflict

A.     Views of Power

B.     Power Currencies

C.     Power Imbalances/Balances

 

V.                 Styles and Tactics

A.     Avoidance

B.     Competition

C.     Compromise

D.     Accommodation

E.      Collaboration

 

VI.              Conflict Assessment

A.     Systems Theory

B.     Qualitative Assessment

C.     Quantitative Assessment

 

VII.            Negotiation

A.     Negotiation Skills

B.     Argumentation

C.     Perspectives on Negotiation

 

VIII.         Managing Interpersonal Conflict

A.     Ending Escalation

B.     Third-Party Intervention

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